AI for networking: myths and reality
Indeed, many networking applications claim AI matchmaking or smart networking, but behind this there can be very different levels of real intelligence — from basic tag-based sorting to truly adaptive recommendations with elements of machine learning.
Let’s break it down by levels — from simple to advanced, with examples of possible formulas and logic.
🧩 1. "AI" at the level of filtering and tag intersection (90% of real cases)
How it works:
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Participants specify interests, industry, position, goals (for example, "looking for partners in fintech").
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The algorithm simply counts the number of matches by tags or categories.
The formula may be:
$$\text{score}(A,B) = \frac{|T_A \cap T_B|}{|T_A \cup T_B|}$$
where \(T_A,\,T_B\) are the sets of interests of participants \(A\) and \(B\).
Next, sorting by score and presenting the top 5 recommendations
What is called
"AI":
– "Semantic matching" (but in reality just synonymization of tags via Word2Vec or GloVe)
– "Interest similarity" (based on embeddings of interest words)
👉 Reality: the algorithm works reliably, but not “intelligently” — it simply intersects fields.
🤖 2. "Smart" algorithms based on embeddings (Embedding-based similarity)
How it is built:
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Each participant is represented as a feature vector (skills, goals, profile description, company, topics).
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The model (for example, Sentence-BERT) converts profile text into a numerical space.
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Then the closest ones are found by cosine similarity.
Formula:
$$\text{similarity}(A,B) = \frac{v_A \cdot v_B}{\|v_A\| \, \|v_B\|}$$
(cosine similarity between embedding vectors)
Plus: You can find
“semantically similar” people even if they do not use the same words.
Minus: Requires good-quality texts and computational
resources.
🧠 3. "Behavioral AI-matching" (less common)
How it works:
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The system collects user behavior: who they interacted with, who they liked, who they skipped, which meetings they confirmed.
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Then it trains a recommendation model (like Netflix):
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Collaborative filtering (similar users — similar recommendations)
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Or Reinforcement learning (optimization based on response metrics)
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Formula (example of matrix factorization):
$$\hat{r}_{ij} = p_i^{T} q_j$$
where \(p_i\) is the preference vector of user \(i\), and \(q_j\) is the feature vector of another participant.
The higher \(\hat{r}_{ij}\), the higher the “compatibility”.
Reality: A very rare case, because a lot of data is needed for this to work.
🎩 4. "Marketing magic"
Some platforms simply do:
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A random selection from those who haven’t met you yet;
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Or filter by city/industry;
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And add “AI powered” to the feature description.
The check is
simple:
– If there is no ability in the interface to specify goals/interests or no interaction data is collected —
then the “AI” is fake.
– If recommendations are always generic and repetitive — most likely a regular tag-based filter.
💡 Examples of real platforms:
| Платформа | Что заявляют | Что реально |
|---|---|---|
| Brella | AI matchmaking | Tag overlap + Semantic matching |
| Grip | AI-powered networking | Embeddings + Interest weighting |
| Swapcard | Smart recommendations | Tag matching + Simple ML weighting |
| MeetingMojo / Whova | Smart search | Фильтрация и сортировка |
| Zerista / Bizzabo | Intelligent matches | Смешанная система (теги + текстовый анализ) |
AI-matching for conferences — technical documentation
Compiled from architecture, algorithm, and API descriptions demonstrating a realistic implementation of smart-matching for a conference application.
Summary
- Levels of “AI” implementation: from simple tags to behavioral models.
- Hybrid scoring formula and specific signals (tag, embedding, role, goal, behavior).
- Implementation pseudocode and a numerical example of score calculation.
- Database schema (PostgreSQL), tables and API endpoints.
- Architecture: Matching Service, AI Layer (embeddings + FAISS) and caching.
1. Levels of “AI” in networking applications
Below is a summary of realistic levels found among vendors:
1. Tag filtering / intersection
One of the most common approaches: participants specify tags/interests; the platform counts matches (for example, Jaccard) and sorts by this metric.
Formula (Jaccard): S_tag = |T_A ∩ T_B| / |T_A ∪ T_B|
2. Embeddings and cosine similarity
Profiles are converted into a vector space (Sentence-BERT, USE) and nearest neighbors are found by cosine measure.
Formula: S_embed = (v_A · v_B) / (||v_A|| ||v_B||)
3. Behavioral models
They use interaction data (likes, meetings, views) and build collaborative filtering, matrix factorization, or graph embeddings.
Requires a sufficient volume of data, so it is less common.
4. Marketing “AI magic”
Some platforms simplify — they use randomization or pure filtering, but label the feature as “AI”. Verify via UI and the presence of text signals/behavior data.
2. Hybrid scoring formula (concept)
Combine signals with weights. General formula:
Here σ is a normalization function (for example, sigmoid) to bring the result into (0,1).
Signals (description)
- \(S_{\text{tag}}\) — similarity by tags (Jaccard or weighted overlap);
- \(S_{\text{embed}}\) — cosine similarity of embeddings (normalized to [0,1]);
- \(S_{\text{role}}\) — role compatibility matrix (for example, founder ↔ investor = 0.9);
- \(S_{\text{goal}}\) — goal match (looking for / offering);
- \(S_{\text{behavior}}\) — collaborative signal (who liked/scheduled meetings with similar users);
- \(C_{\text{conflict}}\) — penalties (for example, same email/company → exclusion or strong penalty);
3. Specific signal formulas
3.1 Tag similarity (Jaccard)
$$S_{\text{tag}}(A, B) = \frac{|T_A \cap T_B|}{|T_A \cup T_B|}$$
3.2 Embedding similarity (cosine)
$$S_{\text{embed}}(A, B) = \frac{v_A \cdot v_B}{\|v_A\| \, \|v_B\|}$$
Value in [-1,1] → normalized to [0,1] as (x+1)/2.
3.3 Role compatibility
Role compatibility matrix: a predefined table of values in the range [0,1].
3.4 Goal match
Simple logic for goal matching (for example, “looking for partners” vs “offering partnership” → 1.0).
3.5 Behavioral signal
Example: using information about which profiles similar users connected with.
Simple signature: $$S_{\text{behavior}}(A, B) = \frac{\#\,\text{users similar to } A \text{ who connected to } B}{\#\,\text{users similar to } A}$$
4. Normalization and combination
Each signal is normalized to [0,1]. Then we combine them with weights and apply sigmoid normalization:
$$ \text{raw} = \sum_i w_i S_i - w_6 C $$
$$ \text{score} = \text{sigmoid}\left( \alpha \cdot (\text{raw} - \beta) \right) $$
5. Numerical example
Let:
- \(T_A = \{\text{fintech}, \text{payments}, \text{API}\}\)
- \(T_B = \{\text{payments}, \text{banking}\}\)
- \(S_{\text{tag}} = \frac{|T_A \cap T_B|}{|T_A \cup T_B|} = \frac{1}{4} = 0.25\)
- \(\text{cosine}(v_A, v_B) = 0.6 \Rightarrow S_{\text{embed}} = \frac{0.6 + 1}{2} = 0.8\)
- \(S_{\text{role}} = 0.7,\; S_{\text{goal}} = 1.0,\; S_{\text{behavior}} = 0.0,\; C_{\text{conflict}} = 0\)
Weights: \(w_{\text{tag}}=0.15,\; w_{\text{embed}}=0.35,\; w_{\text{role}}=0.15,\; w_{\text{goal}}=0.25,\; w_{\text{behavior}}=0.05\)
\[ \text{raw} = 0.15 \cdot 0.25 + 0.35 \cdot 0.8 + 0.15 \cdot 0.7 + 0.25 \cdot 1.0 + 0.05 \cdot 0 = 0.6725 \] \[ \text{score} = \sigma(8 \cdot (0.6725 - 0.5)) \approx \sigma(1.38) \approx 0.8 \]
Result: B is an excellent candidate (\(\text{score} \approx 0.8\)).
6. Practical tips and improvements
- Cold start: popular profiles + content-only signals.
- Weight training: A/B testing and supervised learning (logistic regression, LightGBM) on usefulness labels.
- Speed: precompute embeddings, ANN (FAISS/pgvector) → candidate generation + re-rank.
- Interpretability: show match reason in UI (common tags, goal alignment).
- Privacy: options to “opt-out”, explicit indication of which data is used.
7. API endpoints (REST)
GET /api/users/{id}— profile and tags.POST /api/users— create/update profile (triggers embedding generation).GET /api/matching/{user_id}— returns top‑N recommended matches (refresh parameter for recalculation).GET /api/matching/search— search candidates by filters (tags, roles, location).POST /api/interactions— register like/skip/meeting_confirmed (feedback to the model).
8. Architecture and data flow
In short: Frontend ↔ API Gateway ↔ Matching Service ↔ Database / AI Layer / Cache.
Architecture diagram
Updated flowchart: Matching Service, AI Layer (embeddings + ML), DB, Cache.
9. Background ML pipeline
- daily_batch.py — collects interactions, updates latent vectors.
- retrain_embeddings.py — regenerates embeddings after model changes.
- generate_faiss_index.py — builds ANN index for fast top‑N queries.
10. MVP and scaling recommendations
- Start with tags + Jaccard → add embeddings (Sentence-BERT) → ANN (FAISS) + re-rank.
- Cache matches for 1–3 hours to reduce load.
- For 50k users — pgvector + Redis; >100k — FAISS/Milvus.
And the format if we were a regular service for marketers and general users:
data collection
Collecting participant interests and preferences
To generate relevant profile recommendations, a large volume of data is required. Participants naturally provide this data by filling out their profiles and simply using the platform.
- Participants visit each other's profiles and connect via messages and meeting requests
- This leaves a trail of connections and creates a complex network of participant interactions
- Along with their profile data, this information is continuously fed into our machine learning algorithm in near real-time
data analysis
Understanding participant needs with machine learning
As it collects data, the algorithm processes it simultaneously. This continuous cycle allows it to determine what interests each participant.
- The algorithm constantly analyzes participant behavior and their profile information
- This is the interpretation of data to understand the interests and goals of each participant
- Once understood, it can predict which profiles may be interesting to the participant
recommended profiles
Providing relevant profile recommendations
Once recommendations are generated, they can be presented to participants. This stimulates engagement and interaction within your networking event.
- Each participant sees a different set of profile recommendations based on their interests
- As the algorithm continues to process data, the recommendations improve
- Participants can mark some recommendations as irrelevant, which in turn helps the algorithm
- The more active the participant, the better the recommendations